Relational & Trauma-Informed Therapy

Rachel Kim, RP, SEP Registered Psychotherapist
Somatic Experiencing® Practitioner

"I am not afraid of storms,
for I am learning how to sail my ship."

About Me

I am a Registered Psychotherapist (CRPO) in private practice with 10 years of clinical experience in Toronto, ON. My work is informed by ongoing study, with a particular interest in Infant Mental Health (IMH), the mechanics of trauma resolution, and human resilience.

As a therapist, I bring a warm, direct, and steady presence—combining honest reflection with genuine curiosity and room for lightness where it helps. I'm mindful of my clients' capacities, while also gently challenging them to take the necessary steps for healing and growth. People tend to move toward care and connection when conditions support it. The work I do with individuals, couples, and families is oriented around cultivating those conditions, trusting that health restores when people feel supported enough to access their own readiness.

Training Background
About My Approach

My approach is relational, body-informed, and systemically attuned—attentive to people's story, how the nervous system holds it, and the real-world context they live in.

  • Somatic & Nervous System Tracking:
    Drawing on Somatic Experiencing® principles to help process accumulated stress, resolve trauma, & support autonomic regulation.
  • Developmental & Relational Lens:
    Informed by Infant Mental Health principles & attachment theory—examining how early relational experiences & intergenerational patterns shape present relationships & well-being.
  • Reflective & Integrative Depth:
    Weaving together psychodynamic, parts-based, & cognitive approaches to explore internal conflict & protective patterns.

Additional modality details will be available soon.

More About SE
Individual Services

Supporting adults in sorting through ambivalence, processing difficult experiences, & claiming the agency to think, feel, & act in alignment with what matters most to them.

You may be experiencing:

  • Active Stress & Restlessness:
    Panic attacks, social anxiety, health or medical anxiety, excessive worry, hyper-vigilance, intrusive thoughts, anger/rage, perfectionism, hyper-sensitivity, trouble sleeping
  • Low Energy, Flatness & Fatigue:
    Depressed mood, emotional flatness, difficulty feeling pleasure, low motivation or initiative, fatigue or low energy, brain fog, difficulty focusing, feeling disconnected
  • Emotional & Social Strain:
    Shame/guilt, low self-esteem & self-image, grief/loss, interpersonal conflict, difficulty with trust, identity insecurity, mood dysregulation, social isolation or avoidance
  • Dysregulation & Coping Patterns:
    Feeling locked or frozen, unexplained tension or discomfort, intrusive memories or feelings, self-harming, disordered eating, addictive or compulsive habits, dissociative patterns

Of particular focus:

  • Workplace & Occupational Stress:
    High-demand professions, chronic physical strain, compassion fatigue, moral distress, or challenging power dynamics—with a focus on recovery from prolonged strain, occupational trauma, & boundary work
  • Later-identified neurodivergence (ADHD/Autism):
    Patterns of masking, overextension, sensory sensitivity, & internalized shame—with a focus on developing self-understanding & ways of living that complement one's natural wiring

This list is not exhaustive. Therapy is tailored to your unique context, and we can explore whether this space is the right fit during an initial consultation.

Relational Services

Helping couples & families untangle painful cycles, restore trust, & build from a reliable foundation.

You may be experiencing:

  • Conflict Cycles & Attachment Disconnection:
    Repetitive arguments, demand-withdraw patterns, power struggles, defensive communication, lack of empathy or respect, emotional distancing
  • Relational Impact of Stress & Trust Repair:
    Navigating the ripple effects of individual trauma, neurodivergence, or chronic stress within the relationship; rebuilding safety after attachment injuries or betrayal
  • Cultural Context, Beliefs & Systemic Differences:
    Inherited family traditions & expectations; value tensions & difficulty accepting difference; disharmony around intersecting identities & implicit biases
  • Intergenerational Trauma & Family Transitions:
    Family trauma patterns & unspoken loyalties; relational wounds carried through generations; interrupting cycles & reshaping what gets passed forward

Of special focus:

  • Infant Mental Health & Early Parenting:
    Rooted in Infant Mental Health research—supporting new parents & growing families in building responsive, connected caregiving from the earliest days

This list is not exhaustive. Therapy is tailored to your unique context, and we can explore whether this space is the right fit during an initial consultation.

Clinical Supervision & Consultation

Helping fellow practitioners deepen their clinical presence, integrate body-informed work, & serve as a steady anchor when you feel stuck or lost in the work.

Areas of Focus:

  • Somatic & Relational Integration:
    Weaving trauma & attachment principles into clinical frameworks; developing self-attunement as a tool for organizing internal experiences & guiding clinical responses
  • Case Conceptualization:
    Developing a multi-layered perspective of clients across neurobiological, social & environmental contexts—holding the whole person in view & recognizing when external support or resources can strengthen client care
  • Ethics, Boundaries & Sustainability:
    Clarifying professional limits; working through moral distress & role strain; building the conditions for long-term effectiveness & well-being
  • Reflective Practice & Rupture Recovery:
    Unpacking clinical errors; tending to practitioner shame & regret with honesty & humility; building the capacity to repair, learn & continue without self or client abandonment
Psychiatric Consultation (PMVC)

For active clients whose treatment plans require diagnostic clarity or a medication review (such as for complex trauma, ADHD, or mood stabilization), shared care can be coordinated through the Psychotherapy Matters Virtual Collaboration (PMVC) network.

The Process:

  • Collaborative Consultation: Coordinated with an Ontario-based psychiatrist and primary care providers via secure video.
  • Circle of Care: The therapist attends alongside the client to integrate recommendations directly into psychotherapy.
  • Fees & Coverage: Covered by OHIP. Clients only pay the standard therapy session fee for time spent in consultation.

Please note: This collaborative service is strictly reserved for individuals engaged in an established, ongoing therapeutic relationship within the practice.

Fees & Coverage

Individual: $180
Supervision Dyad: $180
Couples & Families: $200
Based on 55 mins of active clinical time.

  • Direct billing is available for WSIB, NIHB, Medavie Blue Cross, Sun Life, & eligible carriers with TELUS Health.
  • Tiered sliding scale rates are maintained for eligible self-paying or under-insured clients.
Hours & Contact Info

Tuesday – Friday: 11:00 AM – 7:30 PM
Saturday: 11:00 AM – 5:00 PM

All sessions are held virtually.

To get in touch, use the contact form below.

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Questions about fit & approach are welcome.

A complimentary 20-minute consultation is available prior to booking.

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Clinical Education & Academic Background• MSc in Infant Mental Health (In progress, expected Spring 2028) - University of Glasgow
Focusing on neurodevelopment, caregiver-infant attachment, & relational mental health frameworks.
• Diploma in Spiritual Psychotherapy (Dec 2017) - Transformational Arts College, Toronto
Clinical training in depth-oriented, relational, & transpersonal therapeutic practices.
• Bachelor of Arts in Sociology (May 2015) - York University, Toronto
Studies examining systemic dynamics, social structures, & human behaviour.


Clinical Training & Continuing Education
Trauma, Somatic & Depth Training
• Somatic Skills, Kathy Kain PhD, 2024-2025
• Trauma Coupling Dynamics, Kathy Kain PhD, 2023 (Training Assistant, Ongoing)
• SE - Somatic Experiencing, Practitioner Level, SE International, 2021-2023
• Attachment & Trauma Therapy for Adult Relationships, Diane Poole Heller & Terry Levy, 2022
• Brainspotting, Phase 1, Brainspotting Canada Association, 2022
• DBR - Deep Brain Re-Orienting, Advanced Level, Dr. Frank Corrigan, 2022
• Ego States Therapy, Robin Shapiro, MSW, LICSW, 2021
• CRM - Comprehensive Resource Model, Advanced Level, Lisa Schwarz, M.Ed., 2020-2021
• ACT - Acceptance & Commitment Therapy for Trauma, Dr. Russ Harris, 2020
• Treating Complex Trauma w/Structural Dissociation Theory, Kathleen Martin, LCSW, 2020
• Working with Parts, Wilfred Laurier University, 2019

Foundational & Modality Training
• Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Level 1 & 2, The Gottman Institute, 2025
• Theories and Methods of Family Therapy, Guelph University, 2024
• Emotion Focused Therapy-Couples, York University Psychology Clinic, 2023
• Dialectical Behavioural Therapy Skills Training, Dr. Marsha Linehan, 2021
• CBT - Cognitive Behavioural Therapy for Anxiety, Beck Institute, 2019
• Foundations of Applied Mindfulness Meditation, University of Toronto, 2018
• Compassionate Inquiry, Dr. Gabor Maté, 2017
• CBT - Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Hincks-Dellcrest Centre, 2017
• Motivational Interviewing, York University Psychology Clinic, 2016


Specialized, Affirming & Cultural Safety Training
• San'yas Indigenous Cultural Safety Training - PHSA / Ontario Core ICS Health
• Provincial Occupational Awareness Training - First Responder Health
• The BEST Approach: Neurodiversity-Affirming Occupational Participation - CAOT

Professional Affiliations• Registered Member, College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario (CRPO)
• Member, Ontario Association of Mental Health Professionals (OAMHP)
• Member, Somatic Experiencing® International (SEI)
• Member, Infant & Early Mental Health Promotion (IEMHP)
• Associate Member, Canadian Association of Occupational Therapists (CAOT)
Informing work with neurodivergence & occupational stress-related presentations.

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Modalities & Approaches

Not every approach discussed here is used—what we draw on is always shaped by your specific needs, presentation, and goals. Regardless of the modalities used, psychoeducation runs throughout. I share what I'm observing and what I think may be useful, ensuring you understand the direction we're heading and remain an informed, active participant in your own process.


Somatic Experiencing® (SE)
SE is a body-oriented framework for processing trauma developed by Dr. Peter Levine. Drawing on observations of animals in the wild—who instinctively complete their survival responses in the aftermath of threat—Levine proposed that human trauma symptoms are not a psychological weakness, but incomplete biological responses held in the nervous system. SE works directly with this physiology to support regulation, resilience, and the capacity to meet life with greater ease.
Most of us carry more than we realize—from acute traumatic events to chronic pressures, relational strain, developmental wounds, and the cumulative demands of daily life. For some, this shows up as overactivation: anxiety, reactivity, or an inability to settle. For others, it manifests as underactivation: numbness, disconnection, or difficulty staying present. Many people move through exhausting cycles of both.SE works with these patterns by tracking the "felt sense"—the body's moment-to-moment internal experience of sensation, impulse, and emotion. Rather than analyzing what happened, SE gently moves toward and away from activation in small increments, allowing the nervous system to complete what it couldn't finish and return to a steadier baseline. This applies whether you are processing complex trauma, managing acute stress, or improving a regulated foundation that supports clearer thinking and healthier relationships.In session, this can look like: Slowing down considerably. Noticing what arises in the body as we talk—a tightening, a sense of weight, an urge to move. Following those signals with curiosity rather than analysis. Pausing to let something settle before moving on. At times, gentle self-touch or brief body exploration may serve as a useful anchor. Gradually, the work opens toward a fuller sense of aliveness and ease.

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